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When you give up your independence or freedom to please them you undermine yourself.
It is a mistake to reduce yourself to an object of desire for someone. Understanding the difference between pleasure and suffering can aid you in letting go. Work on creating a nurturing home inside yourself, independent of external people and forces. You grow around your experiences. They become part of
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Your morning fix-Having mental fortitude.
“Having mental fortitude means pushing yourself just a little bit farther. It is learning that you don’t have to say “yes” to everything. Sometimes, even though it sounds harsh, “no” is the right answer. It is learning to be honest, even when it’s difficult to express it out
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People pleasing is a waste of time, people that claim to know it all will always find fault no matter what you do.
Perfect, far from being perfect. I am not here for validation or even likes, those are things that I give to myself, anything outside of that is extra toppings😁I don’t sit at anyone’s table but my own, because I like what i serve, therefore I don’t
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When basic needs aren’t met Humans can’t evolve.
To evolve as humans, Maslow’s 5th and last is SELF- ACTUALIZATION “morality, creativity, spontaneity, acceptance, experience purpose, meaning and inner potential” Now think about the world and why people behave the way they do and the cause for Relationship issues, poverty, crime. When one’s basic needs are met
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Pt 1 Resolving conflict: How to handle confrontation.
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How online dating can lead to Fatuous love.
People look for friendship and potential marriage partners when it comes to online dating. However, people's perceptions of what constitutes a good relationship have changed over time. Scenario on a 48 year old woman looking for love online: Her profile Mary is a 48-year-old single woman
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Your Sunday Morning Fix: Know what’s real or fake before you attach yourself to it.
Remember, when you allow the outside world into your life, everything you see, read and every conversation you have becomes a part of your learning process, so therefore you must decipher what’s true or fiction, what’s real or fake before you attach yourself to it.
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Your Friday Morning Fix: Focus on you
When you realize that your life isn’t centered around impressing others, this frees up your energy to focus on things, and people that really make a difference in your life.
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Your Tuesday morning fix: Loneliness is the result of an inability to be authentic.
Loneliness results from not being able to be authentic. People that are not true to you will be the ones you attract if you don't show who you really are.
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Your Monday morning fix: People's treatment of you reflects their self-esteem.
It’s easy to tell how people feel about you. When they don’t value themselves, they won’t see your value, when they don’t trust themselves to make good decisions, they will find it hard to accept any advice given. The more time you spend with these people,
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Your Saturday Morning Fix: Being superficial will lead to loneliness.
Often times we feel lonely because we entertain superficial relationships. Focus on building relationships that has depth ones that make you feel included and appreciated instead of looking for instant gratification or a quick fix.